Why It's Okay (Actually, Essential) to Put Yourself First

Many women find it difficult to put themselves first. Think it's selfish? Think again.

Ilissa

I learned the hard way how to put myself first.

Almost 20 years ago, my husband's identical twin brother killed himself. He was addicted to drugs. My husband—also addicted, I soon discovered—began a rapid descent along the same ruinous path, forsaking me and our 1-year-old son for grief's dark embrace. I tried to help my husband, became, in fact, almost sick with trying to help him and take care of our baby and our precarious finances. Read More>>>