Saturday, July 31, 2010

Helping to Care for Aging Parents

The Baby Boomer generation is caring for their aging parents. After you read this article, checkout my radio archives at www.ksgvradio.com, Talk Therapy w/Ilissa for February 22:
Counseling for Older Adults
Special guest Deborah Dozal of the La Fetra Senior Center.

Ilissa

Many Baby Boomers are finding that their aging parents are in need of health care assistance. Luckily, there are many options available today to help your parents grow old gracefully, either in their own home or in a facility, and several ways that you can finance the costs of the care. Read More>>>

Friday, July 30, 2010

Talk Therapy w/ Ilissa, MS, MFT

Single After 30?
How to Find the Right Partner!
Girl Talk with Brenda and Jeff
www.ksgvradio.com Listen on Friday July 30th from 11am-12pm

Sunday, July 25, 2010

How to Keep the Passion Alive in Your Marriage

Marriage is a curious institution. You can be married to someone for like 65 years now that people are living longer. Very often passion goes underground when children are born into the picture.
Ilissa

Is your marriage not as passionate as it used to be before your kids were born? Do you feel that the chemistry between the two of you is diminishing slowly and steadily? Well, marriage does bring about a lot of responsibility in our lives, and kids just add on heavily to it. With the children taking priority over every other thing, it's hard for the couples to rekindle the romance in their relationship.

In the mad rush of coping with the daily chores and errands, couples tend to forget the very reason that joined them into matrimony. They also forget that life is not meant to be lived like robots. It is a beautiful gift that needs to be cherished in all its varied circumstances. Though it's not that easy to take care of every single thing in the household, a little thought and consideration slipped into your schedule can get the same old joy seeping back into your married life. Read More>>>

Friday, July 23, 2010

Talk Therapy with Ilissa

Talk Therapy with Ilissa started late today, 11:20. It just started.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Talk Therapy With Ilissa, MS, MFT

It's Not Easy Being a Single Parent!
Special Guest: Kathy Benton, Stepping Stones for Women and their Children
www.ksgvradio.com Listen Friday at 11am-12pm

Monday, July 19, 2010

The Impact Celebrities Have on Our Lives

Why are we so fascinated with celebrities these days? Is it a good thing?
Ilissa

People often ask me why I use celebrity examples to illustrate my work. Well, look around you. The truth is that we are obsessed with celebrities. Head to the checkout line at a grocery store and you’ll see all the magazines, each trying to have the most salacious story on the cover to gain your attention so that you’ll spend your hard-earned dollar buying it. For many people, not a day goes by when they don’t sneak a peek at their favorite celebrity gossip website. Sites like TMZ.com and PerezHilton.com are some of the hottest websites online, garnering millions of hits a day.


I use celebrities as examples because they act as good reflections for us. Read More>>>

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Talk Therapy w/ Ilissa, MS, MFT

Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Dating! Special Guest: Dan Mc Getrick, MFT and Hypnotherapy.
www.ksgvradio.com Listen Friday 11-12pm

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Parenting Styles/Children's Temperaments: The Match

If you have kids then this article is for you. What kind of parent are you? There's actually one that works the best. Read on and see what kind of parenting style you have!

Ilissa

Parents' lives change when a child is born. Right from the start they need to make decisions: bottle or breast feeding; carriage or stroller; nanny or day care, work or stay at home; and the list goes on. As children grow older, the decisions don't stop; they change -- school, meals, allowances, after-school activities, friendships, holidays. Although solutions to these individual daily dilemmas are important, it's the parents'overall style and attitude that count as they influence, teach and socialize their children.

Parenting style—what is it?
As all parents know all too well, parenting is complex, and there are no easy answers. The interaction of many specific actions and attitudes on the part of parents come together to affect a child's development. Parenting style refers to the broad overall pattern of parental actions, rather than to a single act.

Types of parenting style Read More>>>

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Talk Therapy With Ilissa, M.S., MFT

Two Couples Talk About Their Relationship
www.ksgvradio.com
Friday July 9th at 11am-12pm

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Why It's Okay (Actually, Essential) to Put Yourself First

Many women find it difficult to put themselves first. Think it's selfish? Think again.

Ilissa

I learned the hard way how to put myself first.

Almost 20 years ago, my husband's identical twin brother killed himself. He was addicted to drugs. My husband—also addicted, I soon discovered—began a rapid descent along the same ruinous path, forsaking me and our 1-year-old son for grief's dark embrace. I tried to help my husband, became, in fact, almost sick with trying to help him and take care of our baby and our precarious finances. Read More>>>