The 3rd Wheel Syndrome

Are you tired of being the third wheel? All your friends either married or with someone? It's not easy to be a third wheel.

Ilissa

Aside from the thought you must have when you think of a 3rd wheel, in every sense of the word, I hate it! Being single (one of the only single people I know) I am having an issue being amongst my coupled friends. There has been many years I have sat through, been grown up, and dealt with the couple company and sitting there being my single self. Watching my coupled friends make out, neck each other, and bat their eyes at each other, has been not a cup of tea for me. Read More>>>

Dating in Your 20's, 30's, 40's, 50's and 60's

Dating, I know not everyone's favorite thing. Dating changes as you change. Learn the best date tips for your age.

What is it that we are searching for? It is the butterflies we first encounter in the presence of your date, the sound of their voice, their smell, touch or is it the blissful moment that comes with exchange of the first "I love you"? As you progress through the decades dating dynamics change with age, your goals change, priorities change the longer you are single the tougher it gets to find "the one". We have outlined a few tips below so get on moving and find your true love.

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Attend National Eating Disorder Week Events

This year's theme for Eating Disorder Awareness Week is "Let's Talk about It". See if you can do one thing this week to help spread the word about eating disorder recovery.

Ilissa

If you weren't aware of it, this is National Eating Disorder Awareness Week (February 21st-27th) sponsored by the National Eating Disorders Organization. There are a number of events taking place all across the country in honor of this week.

Why is this week important? Eating disorders are serious mental health issues. Even if you have not been directly impacted by an eating disorder, it's likely that you have a sister, aunt, friend or boyfriend who has been touch by them in some way.Read More>>>

The Art of Dating When You Have Kids | Love & Sex | GalTime

Are you divorced with children? Thinking about dating but unsure how to do it with kids? Read on to learn how...The Art of Dating When You Have Kids | Love & Sex | GalTime

How Does Birth Order Affect A Child’s Personality

My oldest is so responsible. My middle is a handful. The baby is adorable. Sound familiar? Birth order does effect a child’s personality.

Ilissa

Birth order has been shown to affect a child’s personality. The forerunner of this idea was Alfred Adler, who was a contemporary of Sigmund Freud. Adler suggested that birth order was a major determinant of the main influences on personality. Since the family unit is the primary social unit for children for so many years, it only makes sense that birth order would affect how a child’s personality develops. Read More>>>

Valentines Day, IC Style - Random Acts of Candy Kisses & More

Humans have an amazing ability to adapt. See if you can use Jill's ideas to make your Valentine's Day a special one even though you have IC. Feel free to call my office for more infrmation on counseling for IC. 626-335-0903

Ilissa

I refuse to feel sad on Valentines Day!!! Yes, I'm single and, gasp, alone. (Note to self: Get real Jill, you have an awesome family who loves you. You are definitely not alone). Yes, I can't eat chocolate without paying a heavy price. (Note to self: Carob or, for that matter, sugar cookies taste just fine!) Yes, I get that little ache when I think about the boyfriend I broke up with on Valentines Day years ago (Note to Self: His loss, not mine! ).

I am living proof that Valentines Day can certainly stir up our emotions in many unpredictable ways and when you have IC, it's easy to think about what you can't do, rather than what you can do. So, I'm going to remind you of what you can do today to enjoy the day!

Tip #1 - Give Hugs Frequently Read More Tips>>>

7 Things to do Alone on Valentine's Day

Don't have a date for Valentine's Day? Don't feel bad! There's lots of fun things you can do!

Ilissa

If you are alone this Valentine's Day don't be discouraged. There are millions of us out there who will are single and will be spending our day alone too. While it would be pretty easy to sit around feeling sorry for ourselves, there are some things out there that we can do alone to make this holiday happy even if we are alone. Read More>>>

Valentine’s Day For Men: We know what women want, but what do men want for Valentine's Day?

Alright ladies, we're always complaining that our men aren't romantic but do you really know what your man wants for Valentine's Day? I thought so. You better read on…

Ilissa

Isn't it about time that women started to offer guys a little Valentine's love?

The doorbell rings, and just as Justin crosses the threshold of his apartment he catches a whiff of—what’s that?—fresh roses. Sure enough, as he swings the door open, there stands his wife, Becky, a fresh bouquet of long-stem roses in one hand, a gold-foiled box of Godiva chocolates in the other. Breathless, Justin stares adoringly at Becky, tears in his eyes as he murmurs, barely audibly, "You shouldn’t have." Read More>>>

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6 Mistakes Men Make on Valentine's Day

Here's a reminder guys. Valentine's day is just around the corner!

Memo to men: Valentine’s Day is on February 14. In years past, Yahoo.com has noticed a spike in men searching for an answer to the question: “When is Valentine's Day?” as the day fast approaches. Of all the holidays on the yearly calendar, the one designated for romance never fails to trip guys up. Blame mixed messages: While retailers consider the holiday worthy of diamonds, many women take the stance that it's no big deal.

Don’t fall for any of it. Valentines Day is when a guy’s affection, compatibility, and commitment are put to the test. Forgetting the day is just the first mistake to avoid. There are six other common mistakes men make on February 14. Here's a cheat sheet.
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